Reader's Guide & Book Club Questions

Thank you for choosing Parting Ways — a thriller with a beating heart, and a story that opens honest conversation about the patterns it reveals in our own lives.

A gentle note: this novel explores narcissistic abuse and its aftermath, which can touch real experiences. Please take care of one another in discussion. Free, confidential help is always available — call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.

Discussion Questions

  • The novel opens with Nathan Bauer returning home the day of his parents' funeral, longing to withdraw from the world. How did that opening shape your feelings about him?

  • Nathan wants to become reclusive, yet life refuses to let him retreat. Have you lived through a season when you couldn't hide from what was happening?

  • Angela and Vicktoria are "the human juxtaposition of Good and Evil." What made each compelling? Were the lines ever blurrier than they seemed?

  • The story brims with lies, deception, intrigue, and murder. Which deception caught you most off guard?

  • Malignant narcissism often works invisibly. Where did you notice its patterns in the novel's relationships?

  • As "A Nathan Bauer Thriller," the book weaves an international spy ring through a deeply personal story. How did the large-scale danger and the intimate stakes strengthen each other?

  • The cover pairs the Om symbol with the Ukrainian trident. How did the book's spiritual questions sit alongside its geopolitical tension?

  • Perseverance of the human spirit is the novel's heart. Which moments most embodied it for you?

  • Nathan searches for "true love and real purpose." How did the story distinguish authentic love from its counterfeits?

  • John Gerlach writes, "Despite all the travails of life, never lose the ability to love and to be loved." How does the novel argue for that belief?

  • The author links narcissism in personal relationships to patterns in public life. Do you see parallels between manipulation in intimate relationships and in the wider world?

  • Did Parting Ways change how you might recognize narcissistic or coercive patterns in your own life?

  • A screenplay already exists. If it became a film, which scene are you most eager to see, and how would you cast it?

  • What will you carry with you from Nathan's journey?

  • Who’s your favorite character and why? Any favorite quotes?

Themes to explore

  • The perseverance of the human spirit under impossible pressure

  • Recognizing narcissism — in love, at work, and in public life

  • The search for authentic love and real purpose

  • Truth and deception, on intimate and global scales

  • Grief, isolation, and the courage to re-enter the world

Learn about the mission behind the book, or find support if you need it.

Author’s Favorite Quotes & Character Insight

Quotes…

“Bastard got 7 years and I got life.” - Nathan

“Men are so yesterday.” - Leslie

“We never met and let’s keep it that way.” - Vicktoria

“I need you to identify the body,” - Saunders

“I met a man today whom I believe to be my soulmate.”- Angela

“I had no choice. He made me do it.” - Vicktoria

“Ya, that’s the bitch. She never looked better.” - Leslie

“…don’t ever underestimate me….” - Vicktoria

“I might be a drug mule but he’s a murderer!” - Dougie

“You don’t shoot a cop for a traffic violation.” - TJ

“What the hell is a Moscow Mule?” - Taras

Character Insights…

Nathan would always remember that look.

Katja translated: “The Chinese couple just called you Two-hundred Fifty, their slang term for Blockhead.”

WHAT ARE SOME OF YOUR FAVORITE QUOTES AND INSIGHTS?!