Reader's Guide & Book Club Questions
Thank you for choosing Parting Ways — a thriller with a beating heart, and a story that opens honest conversation about the patterns it reveals in our own lives.
A gentle note: this novel explores narcissistic abuse and its aftermath, which can touch real experiences. Please take care of one another in discussion. Free, confidential help is always available — call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.
Discussion Questions
The novel opens with Nathan Bauer returning home the day of his parents' funeral, longing to withdraw from the world. How did that opening shape your feelings about him?
Nathan wants to become reclusive, yet life refuses to let him retreat. Have you lived through a season when you couldn't hide from what was happening?
Angela and Vicktoria are "the human juxtaposition of Good and Evil." What made each compelling? Were the lines ever blurrier than they seemed?
The story brims with lies, deception, intrigue, and murder. Which deception caught you most off guard?
Malignant narcissism often works invisibly. Where did you notice its patterns in the novel's relationships?
As "A Nathan Bauer Thriller," the book weaves an international spy ring through a deeply personal story. How did the large-scale danger and the intimate stakes strengthen each other?
The cover pairs the Om symbol with the Ukrainian trident. How did the book's spiritual questions sit alongside its geopolitical tension?
Perseverance of the human spirit is the novel's heart. Which moments most embodied it for you?
Nathan searches for "true love and real purpose." How did the story distinguish authentic love from its counterfeits?
John Gerlach writes, "Despite all the travails of life, never lose the ability to love and to be loved." How does the novel argue for that belief?
The author links narcissism in personal relationships to patterns in public life. Do you see parallels between manipulation in intimate relationships and in the wider world?
Did Parting Ways change how you might recognize narcissistic or coercive patterns in your own life?
A screenplay already exists. If it became a film, which scene are you most eager to see, and how would you cast it?
What will you carry with you from Nathan's journey?
Who’s your favorite character and why? Any favorite quotes?
Themes to explore
The perseverance of the human spirit under impossible pressure
Recognizing narcissism — in love, at work, and in public life
The search for authentic love and real purpose
Truth and deception, on intimate and global scales
Grief, isolation, and the courage to re-enter the world
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Author’s Favorite Quotes & Character Insight
Quotes…
“Bastard got 7 years and I got life.” - Nathan
“Men are so yesterday.” - Leslie
“We never met and let’s keep it that way.” - Vicktoria
“I need you to identify the body,” - Saunders
“I met a man today whom I believe to be my soulmate.”- Angela
“I had no choice. He made me do it.” - Vicktoria
“Ya, that’s the bitch. She never looked better.” - Leslie
“…don’t ever underestimate me….” - Vicktoria
“I might be a drug mule but he’s a murderer!” - Dougie
“You don’t shoot a cop for a traffic violation.” - TJ
“What the hell is a Moscow Mule?” - Taras
Character Insights…
Nathan would always remember that look.
Katja translated: “The Chinese couple just called you Two-hundred Fifty, their slang term for Blockhead.”
WHAT ARE SOME OF YOUR FAVORITE QUOTES AND INSIGHTS?!